Hi everyone, I'm 29 y.o Nichole (Nikki). Mom to 2 girls from a previous marriage and I have one on the way. I am engaged to a handsome(I think)retired Marine who also has two girls 14 and 19. We are planning to wed on a cruise in November, but I think we may just elope with the news of our little love child I may not be wanting to cruise in November. He actually had a vesectamy about 4 years ago. He got his levels counted about 2 mths ago and the Dr. told him he woud need to get it done again. So while we were waiting for the surgery date to come around we decided if it happend it happens....well it happend. So I am excited about being pregnant this one last time and have decided to treat it like my first and savour every moment. SO that's how I got here back to BOL. Things have changed soooo so much since I was here 7 years ago. I hope I can jump back into the swing of things.
First of all, let me say that I do believe in true love. But I also deeply believe in the complexity, variety, and downright insanity of love. A lucky person loves hundreds of people in their lives, all in different ways, family love, friendship love, romantic love, all in so many shades and depths. I don't think you lose your ability--or right--to have true love by loving more than one person. In part, this is true because you never love two people the same way. Another part of it is that, if your lucky, you learn to love better with practice. The bottom line is that you have to choose who you are going to commit to-that's the foundation of true love, not a lack of other options. ~Stephenie Meyer
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and congratulations
