So I'm paranoid about getting pregnant this time around because we are actually planning this one (the last one was a happy surprise). But when I go to this site, it says I should have conceived on the 21st. Another site (mymonthlycycles.com) says the 30 was my ovulation date. How do you know for sure? Is there anyway to know if I was successful before I can take the home test? Any symptoms other than morning sickness I should be looking for? Anyone have a clue?

Actually ovulation is different for every woman (just like pregnancy symptoms etc). The "book cycle" that most sites go by is a 28 day cycle with ovulation occuring on day 14. The best way to know is to track it yourself to see how long your normal cycles are and then go from there. I wouldn't take a hpt until you are late. Good luck!

The clues for AF are kinda pretty much the same for AF... cramping, tender breasts... so it is hard to say what "feels" more like pregnancy and what doesn't. Also, morning sickness generally doesn't start until you are a bit farther along, at least 4-5 weeks. Sometimes longer. Not knowing what you are entering on your sites makes it hard to guess why they are showing different things. The best way to know for sure is to take a test about 14 days after O. You can do it early, but I would wait at least 12 DPO to get a better idea.

Waiting is really hard, and you may not have "Normal" symptoms right away. I didn't have any symptoms except for a late period. My morning sickness kicked in 2 weeks later. So I wouldn't focus so much on symptoms, you will drive yourself nuts!

I agree with all the ladies!!! There really wasn't any symptoms that I had I even had a bit of bleeding and thought it was AF but a week later my boobs where super sore. That was my sign to test and it was positive. Don't drive yourself nuts, it will happen when it's time. Good Luck.