So no I am not PG but Dh approached me last night and asked if we could start trying again. Ty is only 7 months I was thinking maybe if maybe when he was like 3 years old.
He said he never thought he would love being a dad as much and just wants Tyler to have another buddy.
Hmm I dont know I think its early. I really didnt like being PG. I loved when we hit 34 weeks and he was moving and grooving but I am just not sure.
He wants me to stop the pills since I have bad reactions and let nature take its course. And if we do end up with another he will go and get fixed.
well if you are having bad reactions to the pill you should stop taking it anyways...and you can always use other forms of birth control like condoms....
Yeah I was going to stop using them because I am schedule for the IED in a few weeks. But I wont take that out until 2.5 years. I just dont know.
My mom got PG with me when my sister was 2.5 months old. She did it but I just dont know. I think one in diapers and formula is enough. But then again the next may not be allergic to my milk.
I say whatever you think, i am glad we waited a little while, i know some people love having their kids really close together but kinda wanted to hold off, i wanted Nicholas walking and doing a lot of things for himself first just b/c it seemed easier, he is such a helpful little boy now that i can't wait for the new baby to get here but that's just what i feel is right for our family, every family is different and if you'll want another one go for it! There is never a "right" time to have a baby lol
Well, I think that its great having your kids close in age because they never remember a time without each other and they seem to be closer, but having them far apart may have benefits too, like not 2 in diapers and on formula at the same time but then you have to deal with jealousy and going through trying to potty training while trying to take care of a newborn you know! Its up to you but I can say I recommend having them close in age.
Posts: 3042 | Location: Arlington, Texas | Registered: Sat November 24 2007
I never wanted two so close in age, but God blessed me with #2 sooner than I had planned and now I absolutely love love love having two so close in age. I wouldn't change it for the world and its not nearly as hard as I thought it would be! It's a personal choice! Good luck!
Melissa
Posts: 8649 | Location: North Texas | Registered: Thu October 26 2006
I had 3 in diapers. I got preggo with Baylee when Ally was 8 months old, and then got preggo with Dylan when Baylee was 6 months old. lol Its really not as hard as people think. I actually LOVE that my 3 are very close in age, cuz they entertain each other GREAT! They constantly play together and love each other!!! I wouldn't have it any other way! Plus the adjustment for them was way easier. Now with me preggo again, and Dylan older, he has been the baby forever, so he has issues with the fact of another baby. lol Daddy and me are NOT allowed to hold any babies.
Monica Wife to Eric (10/2004) Mommy to 4 wonderful, crazy kiddos!!!
Posts: 8152 | Location: Central California | Registered: Thu May 18 2006
My husband was the same way! He was ready to have another one by the time our son was animated. So needless to say he was SUPER excited that I'm pregnant now. I'm excited now, but I, like you, don't enjoy the pregnancy part.
You know...two in diapers actually is not bad...people always make that comment, but it really isn't bad. And if you bargain shop diapers like I do the cost isn't so bad either. Now that Ainsley is potty training I find myself busier than I did with two in diapers.
Melissa
Posts: 8649 | Location: North Texas | Registered: Thu October 26 2006